Bloom Where You Are Planted by Beth Barany
As a novelist building a career, do you ever feel that you are shouting into the wind? That you’re clawing up a slippery muddy mountain? That you’re paddling upriver in a whitewater rapids?
I do! When that happens, my go-to response is to put my head back down, crawl back into my writer cave, and write on whatever story is next. Yep, I lick my wounds and turn my back on the world once again so I can create. I’m sensitive after all, as I imagine you are.
But when I feel strong again, I turn and face the world and wonder, “Where are my readers? What do I do? How do I find them?”
Then I feel alone again because I don’t see them. I hear the wind whistling in the crevices of a barren landscape and feel ever so alone in a cold vista.
Vicious circle. Sad. Alone.
No fun. At all.
Big breath in and out, everyone.
There you go…
There is a way out. A third way. Promise.
Here’s my way out of this vicious circle. I take a deep breath and I ask myself, “Self, what do I want?” Or more gently, “Self, what would you like?”
This question helps me reach for what I want, but ironically it also helps me acknowledge where I am, notice what I feel, and helps me choose to bloom from here, not from somewhere else.
Try it. What is that like for you?
Another way to get there is to ask, “Self, What is your greatest desire?”
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My wish for you today is that you reach for the stars and enjoy every luscious moment of the journey and adventure of your design.