{"id":22875,"date":"2020-03-24T03:00:39","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T10:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/?p=22875"},"modified":"2020-03-20T07:40:41","modified_gmt":"2020-03-20T14:40:41","slug":"returning-to-writing-fiction-after-the-death-of-someone-close-by-tinthia-clemant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/2020\/03\/24\/returning-to-writing-fiction-after-the-death-of-someone-close-by-tinthia-clemant\/","title":{"rendered":"Returning to Writing Fiction After the Death of Someone Close by Tinthia Clemant"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Returning-to-Writing-Fiction-After-the-Death-of-Someone-Close-by-Tinthia-Clemant.png\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-22881 size-full\" title=\"Returning to Writing Fiction After the Death of Someone Close by Tinthia Clemant\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Returning-to-Writing-Fiction-After-the-Death-of-Someone-Close-by-Tinthia-Clemant.png\" alt=\"Returning to Writing Fiction After the Death of Someone Close by Tinthia Clemant\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Returning-to-Writing-Fiction-After-the-Death-of-Someone-Close-by-Tinthia-Clemant.png 300w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Returning-to-Writing-Fiction-After-the-Death-of-Someone-Close-by-Tinthia-Clemant-160x160.png 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Let\u2019s welcome back monthly columnist <a href=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/?s=Tinthia+Clemant\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tinthia Clemant<\/a> as she shares with us: \u201cReturning to Writing Fiction After the Death of Someone Close.\u201d Enjoy!<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, it\u2019s a long title but, sadly, there\u2019s no other way to convey what this blog post is about.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Death &#8211; A Loss that Cuts Deep<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s been a little over three months since my sister lost her battle with ovarian cancer. November 23, 2019.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having her taken from me has cut deep, deeper than the losses of my parents.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Please don\u2019t think me callous;<\/strong> I loved my parents and their deaths were tough to get through, but, after working through my grief those many years ago, I truly believed I was prepared to deal with another death should one come my way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-22876\" title=\"Dyan\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/2.jpg\" alt=\"Dyan\" width=\"200\" height=\"150\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, nothing could have prepared me for the devastating blow I received when Dyan died.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>That was her name; my sister \u2014 Dyan, named for the Greek goddess, Diana.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Believe me when I write my sister was as brave as the Goddess herself<\/strong>, along with being my best friend, my biggest fan for my writing, and my muse.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Depression \u2013 The Fourth and Most Debilitating Stage of Grief<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>In some ways it feels like years since I kissed Dyan goodbye.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Time stalled \u2014 frozen in a fog known as grief.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>I was lost as to what was my reality,<\/strong> many days wandering aimlessly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/3.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-22877\" title=\"broken heart\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/3.jpg\" alt=\"broken heart\" width=\"200\" height=\"133\" \/><\/a>I reached for my joyful memories of her but they seemed to have withered and turned to ash.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The month of December passed in a blur, leaving me little time for writing, or feeling sad. I was busy, busy, busy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>The death of a loved one has a tendency to do that.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are all kinds of detailed chores that require attention. Clothes that once graced the most beautiful woman I knew needed folding; books, graceful fingers had once touched needed sorting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Busy, busy, busy.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then January came, as did a deep depression, and I embraced the darkness, slipping into my rabbit hole where the pieces of my soul lay scattered on the black earth.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Life could continue without me<\/strong>, my sister was gone, and I had no need to play in the light any longer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I spent my time crying, sleeping, crying myself to sleep, eating ice cream, and sleeping.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wanted my sister back and there wasn\u2019t enough CBD in the Universe that could help me. As far as writing went\u2026 screw it \u2014 I had lost my muse.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Back in the Rabbit Hole\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People told me to write. \u201cIt will help you get over your loss.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Why must death be something we need to get over?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s painful to grieve but just because the person we loved is gone doesn\u2019t mean our relationship with her, or him, ends?<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>According to psychotherapist Julia Samuel<\/strong>, the author of\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/PxXa3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grief Works<\/span><\/i><\/a>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/ScgP9\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This Too Shall Pass<\/span><\/i><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, the first Pillar of Strength a grieving person must construct is the relationship with the deceased.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Samuel\u2019s writes that\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAlthough we have to come to terms with the fact of their death, the relationship with the person who has died \u2013 though radically altered \u2013 continues. We love them in absence, rather than presence.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I worked through my grief, using K\u00fcbler-Ross\u2019s stages and Dr. Samuel\u2019s advice and thought I had achieved success. Heck, I had even written. (Yay, me.)\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>By the time February arrived I was ready to re-enter the world with my spectral sister by my side and a\u00a0<\/strong><strong>new found energy to once again be part of the human race.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-22878\" title=\"Rabbit hole\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/4.jpg\" alt=\"Rabbit hole\" width=\"200\" height=\"160\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, surgery loomed and a much needed left hip sent me tumbling back into my rabbit hole of depression. Twenty-nine more days of hiding in my house with depression as my companion as we rode a pain-killer-enhanced emotional roller coaster.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Write, Damn It!<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">March is now here and as I hobble around my yard, which, by the way, resembles a war zone thanks to all the leaves and sticks winter deposited on the lawn, I\u2019m reminded that life continues, despite the chaos that gets thrown at it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/6.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-22879\" title=\"life goes on\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/6.jpg\" alt=\"life goes on\" width=\"200\" height=\"133\" \/><\/a>For you see, life goes on, even when we don\u2019t want it to.\u00a0Like the plants returning to the surface in my gardens, I will find a way to gather the words I need to write my stories. I will do this for my sister. And for myself.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Lessons Death Taught Me\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are the lessons the death of my sister taught me.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>First and foremost,<\/strong> be gentle and kind to yourself because only you know what you need to feel better.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Next,<\/strong> don\u2019t let others tell you how to grieve. If you want to cry into a bowl of Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough, do it! If you want to scream, do it! Grieve your way and damn anyone who tells you it\u2019s wrong.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Third<\/strong>, grieve in your own timeline. Hit the stages of grief in any order you want and as many times as you want. There is no set amount of time we get to grieve when someone we loves dies. Take as long, or as little as you want. This is your journey.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Fourth<\/strong>, keep plenty of ice cream in your freezer.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-22880\" title=\"Those we love\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5.jpg\" alt=\"Those we love\" width=\"200\" height=\"274\" \/><\/a>Lesson five<\/strong>, always remember that the person you lost isn\u2019t really lost; she or he will be waiting for you when you come out of the darkness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>And, lastly, trust that you\u2019ll find your way back to whatever it is you need to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hey, Dyan, I\u2019m writing again!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">***<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Editor\u2019s note: I am glad you\u2019re writing again, too, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tinthia!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<h2>ABOUT THE AUTHOR<\/h2>\n<p><strong class=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Tinthia_bio_pic-3.png\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"tc-smart-load-skip tc-smart-loaded alignleft wp-image-20629\" title=\"Author avatar, Tinthia Clemant\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Tinthia_bio_pic-3-300x300.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Tinthia_bio_pic-3-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Tinthia_bio_pic-3-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Tinthia_bio_pic-3-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Tinthia_bio_pic-3-640x640.png 640w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Tinthia_bio_pic-3-160x160.png 160w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Tinthia_bio_pic-3-320x320.png 320w\" alt=\"Author avatar, Tinthia Clemant\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>Author of <em><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2BGtmgn\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Summer of Annah series<\/a>, <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tinthiaclemant.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tinthia Clemant<\/a> <\/strong>lives in a secluded spot on the Concord River in Massachusetts. Her companions include a black Labrador\/Coonhound named Harlee; Shadow, an elderly black cat who still rocks at catching mice that have wandered into the house; a few hundred wild Mallards; assorted turtles, songbirds, snakes; and hawks, two Great Blue herons, and an American bald eagle.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2BGtmgn\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2bgtmgn noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"tc-smart-load-skip tc-smart-loaded alignright wp-image-20609 size-medium\" title=\"The Seasons of Annah (2 book series) by Tinthia Clemant\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Annah-mockup-300x200.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Annah-mockup-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Annah-mockup-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Annah-mockup-1024x683.png 1024w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Annah-mockup-640x427.png 640w\" alt=\"The Seasons of Annah (2 book series) by Tinthia Clemant\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Besides writing, she enjoys baking, gardening, reading (of course), painting and photography, laughing, and movies (the more explosions the better). Tinthia is an ice cream <em>aficionado<\/em> and insists that Ben and Jerry are the most perfect men ever created. She inherited my father\u2019s temper and her mother\u2019s view on life: It\u2019s meant to be lived, embraced, savored, inhaled, and not given back until every last drop of wonder is claimed. If you visit Tinthia, make sure you bring a bottle of bourbon and, of course, ice cream. Her favorite flavor is Chunky Monkey.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nothing could have prepared her for the devastating blow she received when her loved one died. 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