{"id":22045,"date":"2019-08-22T03:00:33","date_gmt":"2019-08-22T10:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/?p=22045"},"modified":"2019-08-30T19:11:34","modified_gmt":"2019-08-31T02:11:34","slug":"inner-critic-inner-judge-by-pam-sourelis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/2019\/08\/22\/inner-critic-inner-judge-by-pam-sourelis\/","title":{"rendered":"Inner Critic-Inner Judge by Pam Sourelis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Inner-Critic-Inner-Judge-by-Pam-Sourelis.png\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-22048\" title=\"Inner Critic-Inner Judge by Pam Sourelis\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Inner-Critic-Inner-Judge-by-Pam-Sourelis-300x300.png\" alt=\"Inner Critic-Inner Judge by Pam Sourelis\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Inner-Critic-Inner-Judge-by-Pam-Sourelis-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Inner-Critic-Inner-Judge-by-Pam-Sourelis-160x160.png 160w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Inner-Critic-Inner-Judge-by-Pam-Sourelis-320x320.png 320w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Inner-Critic-Inner-Judge-by-Pam-Sourelis.png 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a>Please welcome guest author Pam Sourelis as she shares with us \u201cInner Critic-Inner Judge.\u201d Enjoy!<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fellow writers,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know how you feel when someone harshly judges you, and you make the mistake of taking the criticism to heart?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Wrecked. <\/strong><\/h4>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Outside Judge<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When we were kids, we didn\u2019t have much choice. But as we grew older, we learned (or are learning or would benefit greatly by learning) that we didn\u2019t have to listen to people\u2019s judgy pronouncements, didn\u2019t have to let their words wreck our confidence, wreck our hearts.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Inside Judge: The Inner Critic\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But what about the unembodied judges, the ones that pop into the room while we\u2019re trying to write, that hover next to our desks, insisting that we don\u2019t know what we\u2019re doing, that we\u2019re wasting our time?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>If you\u2019re beating yourself up about the quality of your writing or the amount of time you spend on it, if you\u2019re tied up in knots over it<\/strong>, you can be darned sure there\u2019s a judge \u2013 or two or three \u2013 hanging out with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who are these nasty creatures? Cultural voices \u2013 often in the mouths of our parents or other loved ones \u2013 who have crept into the very fibers of our being and taken up residence.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>They need to go.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Several Methods for Removing Judge or Judges\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have several methods for removing judges, but they all have one thing in common: They come from a place of kindness.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m the one who let the big-mouths in to begin with.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>At some point<\/strong>, I listened to them because I thought they were protecting me: from failure, from shame, from isolation from the tribe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know now that they\u2019re not protecting me one bit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know now that they\u2019ve become poison.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know now that I have to ask them to leave.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Years ago<\/strong>, a large, swaggering judge started standing behind me as I sat at my desk, writing. I, a former two-and-a-half-pack-a-day smoker, was in the process of freeing myself from this killer addiction.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This loud-mouthed judge wanted none of it. He stood behind me going on about how I couldn\u2019t write without a cigarette!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What was I thinking? Who did I think I was? I\u2019d never be able to do it. Anything I wrote would be a total mess.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>I turned in my chair<\/strong>, pointed at the other side of the room, and told him to go stand <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">over there.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> He went.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He tried to creep up behind me a couple more times, but I sent him back. I didn\u2019t yell. I was kind and polite. I just told him where he needed to be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He came back for several days, with the same mouthful of horror. But I just calmly sent him to the other side of the room. He didn\u2019t have to leave; he just had to leave me alone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After a few more days, he stopped coming. I guess he got bored. This was over 20 years ago. I\u2019ve never seen his face again.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask the Judge To Leave\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those judges? We need to ask them to leave.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>What strategy can you create?<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Join my free Facebook group and join the conversation:<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/321170918431740\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Letting Go: The Practice of Writing<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">***<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Editor\u2019s note<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: If you\u2019re interested in writing memoir, then check out Pam\u2019s course <strong>&#8220;We are Our Stories: An Introduction to Memoir Writing&#8221;<\/strong> starting in October <a href=\"https:\/\/wingedhorsewritingstudio.com\/writing-workshops\/memoir\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Class size is limited to 12. Early Bird Special ends September 22. For more information and to register, go here: <a href=\"https:\/\/wingedhorsewritingstudio.com\/we-are-our-stories-an-introduction-to-memoir-writing\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">https:\/\/wingedhorsewritingstudio.com\/we-are-our-stories-an-introduction-to-memoir-writing\/<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">***<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ABOUT THE AUTHOR<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wingedhorsewritingstudio.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"https:\/\/wingedhorsewritingstudio.com\/ noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-22046\" title=\"Pam Sourelis\" src=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PAM-SOURELIS-PamandPoniesCropped-300x203.jpeg\" alt=\"Pam Sourelis\" width=\"150\" height=\"101\" srcset=\"https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PAM-SOURELIS-PamandPoniesCropped-300x203.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/writersfunzone.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PAM-SOURELIS-PamandPoniesCropped.jpeg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>Pam Sourelis writes fiction and creative non-fiction and helps other creative writers polish their craft and navigate the writing process. A graduate of the Vermont College of Fine Arts MFA in Writing program, her fiction has appeared in a number of literary journals, including <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Green Mountains Review. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Her many articles and essays about her life and work with animals (as an animal communicator and Reiki practitioner) have appeared in a number of animal publications, most recently, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Natural Horse<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. She\u2019s been helping writers in classes, workshops, and private coaching for over 25 years. Her website is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wingedhorsewritingstudio.com\/signup\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">WingedHorseWritingStudio.com<\/a><\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and receive \u201cSomething to Consider,\u201d a weekly 30- to 45-second read that will nourish, support, and inspire your writing self.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fellow writers, this post shares ways to address the inner critic or inner judge that visits us all, by guest columnist, writer and teacher, Pam 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